Relationships

Let’s just be real: there’s this running message in and outside the church that says abstinence is only for a particular “type” of Christian. You know, the super spiritual ones. The ones who don’t struggle. The ones who aren’t dating. Or the ones who are “called to singleness forever.” Somehow, we’ve watered down abstinence to a suggestion, instead of seeing it as what it is, a call to holiness.

Nothing says "single woman in her 30s" like being flooded with "here's how I found my husband in 12 months and you can too" content on social media. I've seen it all as someone who's walked through 13 years of singleness. The "wife schools" are coaching programs tailored to successful Christian women, the polished reels that prey on our desire for love and companionship.

Maybe the person for you doesn’t check every box or fit every plan. Erica reminds us, sometimes the blessings we overlook are the ones we need most.

Both Obamas have spoken candidly in the past about how life in the White House has changed, strained, and also strengthened their relationship. There’s plenty of relationship wisdom to glean from the former president about how to keep things fresh and fun with your partner. We can all take a page out of Obama’s book and learn how to show love to the ones we love.

Whatever His answer, know this: it doesn't alter your purpose or God's plan for you and has no bearing on your identity.

Tap in to learn the difference between these romantic archetypes and why they come into our lives in the first place.

Yes, deferred hope makes the heart sick, but here's the truth: you are not alone and have access to a God who sees your pain and is with you.

It’s time to explore the beauty and purpose of singleness.

If you’re struggling in love and relationships, or considered therapy but aren’t sure if it really works, here's how therapy can help you begin your self-love journey.

On one hand, you want to be upfront about your values and honor your faith. On the other hand, there's the real fear of rejection.

Whether you've moved to a new place, a friend passed away or ties were broken with past friendships, here are a few tips in creating bonds to last especially as an adult.