Breaking Free from Baggage | Ericaism
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I’ve learned that we all carry some kind of baggage. Whether it’s relationships, work, or friendships, we often bring past experiences into new situations. A few years ago, my husband and I spoke at a church about this very topic—how baggage can affect relationships. But as I reflected on it, I realized baggage isn’t limited to love; it shows up everywhere.
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Think about it: something bad happens at work, and suddenly you’re walking into a new job expecting the same negativity. Or maybe a past friendship ended badly, and now you’re guarded with new people. It’s human nature to want to protect ourselves from pain, but carrying the past into the present can rob us of new blessings.
So, how do we let go? For me, it starts with being open to God’s plan and trusting that He has something new for us. I remind myself to tell a different story, to believe that the next chapter won’t be like the last one. It’s not always easy, but letting go is necessary for growth.
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Personally, I’ve faced challenges with finances. Growing up in a big family with limited resources, I didn’t have financial training. When I started making money, I made mistakes because I was operating from a mindset of lack—always chasing discounts, never saving enough. It wasn’t until I asked God to help me learn how to handle what He gave me that things began to change.
I sought help. I studied, I surrounded myself with financial experts, and I learned to become a better steward of God’s blessings. That mindset can apply to anything—a new relationship, a career, or even personal growth. The key is to avoid letting old habits or fears hold you back.
I’ve also learned the value of seeking guidance. You don’t have to stay stuck in ignorance or uncertainty. There are so many resources available—mentors, coaches, counselors, even Google! But nothing beats talking to someone who has real-life experience.
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When I started my career as an artist, I had no idea what I was doing. I had to evolve, study, and grow into my role. God gave me the seed, but it was my job to nurture it—just like planting a tree. And believe me, I’ve tried to plant things! My Meyer lemon tree was a disaster until I got help from someone who knew what they were doing.
The point is, you don’t have to figure everything out alone. Seek help, knock on doors, and trust that God will open them. Growth takes time, but with faith, effort, and the right support, you can move forward and thrive.
Let’s release the past and embrace the blessings waiting for us.
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